How to behave with a teenager?

The child is growing. Gradually becoming more mature. Enters the so-called transitional age. The age of transition from child to adult. At this age, problems begin in many families. Some families are trying to figure it out for themselves. But there are people who go to a psychologist with their child's problems. And they are doing the right thing.
The most frequent question to psychologists is how to behave with a teenager. All families face the problem of adolescence. But not a large number of adults know how to properly get out of conflicts with their child going through a transitional period.
Acceptance of the feeling of adulthood, perception of puberty. Adults become role models, and they are not necessarily parents. Also, the child goes through several stages of misunderstanding, or rather contradictions.
Firstly, he feels like an adult imprisoned in the body of a child. He is tormented by questions, he is torn by the need to be and seem.
Secondly, we adults often call our teenage children “adults” or “children” exactly when it is convenient for us.
Thirdly, we want to raise an independent and responsible child. But we are very worried when a child shows independence and takes responsibility for all his actions.
Based on all of the above, it can be understood that all the contradictions of adolescence are our own doubts about the child. Repeating the behavior of adults, a teenager often exaggerates it in his own. If we are natural, then our children will avoid all the contradictions of adolescence. It is important to love your children just like that, and not for anything.
I remember one of the accidentally overheard conversations of children 14-15 years old, about their parents. The point of the conversation was that one of them had “bad” parents: they drove him home early, did not let him do what he wanted, instead it was necessary. And the second one has “good” ones, according to the first one, they don't care what time he comes, does what he wants. To which the second replied, “your parents love you. They worry about you.”
Trying to become “good”, we often forget to tell the child about ourselves. We are afraid that the child will not understand us, will laugh or hate. The parents of the second teenager loved him, but gave him a little more responsibility than he needed at that time.
Love your child. Take care of him. And whether to go to an appointment with a psychologist is your choice. Homemade porn https://www.amateurest.com/ USA.








































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